Nana and Poppy send love to you today and always !
Dear Guillianna and Elijah-
Hope you will one day know how loved you are by so many people – we hope you are working hard at learning, building the very best possible lives for yourselves and always know that we are so sad for the fact that grown up problems have so severely affected the two of you. The most important thing we can try to accomplish is to spare you both from ever thinking it is your fault, that it is abnormal to love your grand parents, that anyone should ever have to choose between love and approval from parents and their grandparents. Grandparents are meant to help you as you grow, to allow you to feel happy and safe when in our care, and for you to ever imagine anything less than that, while living in the Mitten, is more than just unfair, it would be hurtful to you and your future happiness. So today we will say again – we love you, we hope you are working hard at making your tomorrows bright and that you are treating others the way you would always hope to be treated. I hope our daughter can learn this same lesson in time – that how she treats her parents, if she lies to her self or others and tells herself and you that you were unhappy here in the Mitten, the present day gain she feels in holding you back from having a relationship will be short lived. Her anger or distrust comes from something far beyond your current ability to understand and it is totally personal, believing no one is trustworthy, that you had a bad experience in the Mitten and making it look as though you can only trust her, enables her to continue a self fulfilling prophecy, it seems by the actions thus far – someone has made certain you both are fed the untruths-, that life for you in the Mitten was bad. and if she is honest and allows the real feelings of love and joy And try helping her children have accessibility to all they loved in the Mitten, and not attempting to serve her own personal agenda or feeding her own issues and need to hate, over the need of others to love . That day will be the day you’ll get to call when ever you want, see all those you love, visit and spend time with family and friends in the Mitten.
We love you both and are so sad that you have been in the middle of this very sad situation. We will hope for you to live with millions of new memories being made, filling you lives with laughter and new experiences , that when they are coupled with all the good memories of your years in the Mitten – the end result can and should be pure joy and happiness,Again, remember we will always love you both – to the moon and back , forever and for always
❤️Nana and Poppy ❤️🍪