Dear Guillianna and Elijah-
This says it all. We do love you – so much and hope you are having a wonderful week. Every day we hope you will be strong and never forget all the good memories you’ve always had even if you’re being conditioned to do so – The saddest part about the position that has been taken by mom and dad to date – is what it or this does has done and will do – to you both. Being that they cannot see what loss of people and trust in those they loved did to them , and how they are affected by the childhood experience . All that is visible to them currently gis that they t they don’t think it matters now. That inability to see clearly the emotional hardship the past created – the lack of understanding could have a very negative effect on so many others. They have nieces and nephews. They have family in the Mitten and they have abandoned all of it. Under a false pretense. Time is something we never can get back. And the lesson may never be learned Or it may take so long to learn that valuable days and weeks months and years will be lost . Please know we did nothing to deserve the events that have transpired. These events the responsibility for the alienation you’ve been subjected to is not on actions of your grandparents but rather are the result the circumstances that developed as you mom was a child –
The broken trust the loss of life she loved and the inability to control anything seemingly has left her incapable of showing us her parents love, trusting us and led to fabricating so many inferences that are not relevant to your lives with us or your experiences, rather how she feels or her own emotions. The resolve is not on you two . The burden is however yours and that is so sad . The lack of regard for her parents for her siblings, her own neices and nephews and the life you lived here the value of the people in your life here is something she cannot relate to or she would not have done this. I apologize for not being present, that we are not enough to fix the broken feelings inside some of our children . Love was not enough to fix all the issues or burdens they were left to manage. This series of letters will hopefully help prevent you from feeling as though you are bad, maybe help you to not be angry , help you to see that all of the adults involved love you deeply and to lock in and immortalize important and valuable wonderful memories – to allow you to one day know and feel that they are special and good and in no way were either of you ever unhappy during your lives here in the Mitten!
We love you to the moon and back Forever and for always
XOXOXOXOXOXO
❤️Nana and Pippy❤️?