Listen… with your heart!
Dear Guillianna and Elijah-
Today is Friday , and I definitely still get to enjoy Bash visits … it reminds me how much you both loved when he came to Nana’s on Friday’s or to your school. You used to make him laugh so hard ! Click over the link and you’ll find a video memory !
Then there is the video where Poppy took you and Elijah on a special date night… to show you how amazing it is to have a date with someone special and how you should always be made to feel. SPECIAL!
Today in this photo he is just a few months shy of two years old. He is still so adorable and to me it sure seems he is growing fast.
Today he tried to fit into Guillianna’s doll stroller. He found it very funny ! I remember Guillianna and Eli both doing this with this same toy! It must be true that the older a person gets – the faster things and time- go by. We can’t imagine how you two have likely grown. I wonder if you even remember us ? Or if you’ve changed so much from what we remember? That is what is hardest for Poppy and I- it’s the idea we’ve been told that you two don’t want to see us or talk to us!!!!!!
The idea that something or that someone has said things that moved you from wanting to get good night kisses, dream starters and hugs every single night, changed the hysterical crying that happened when you had to leave, crying so hard about how you’d miss us … to this new and completely changed relationship. We are told you no longer want to know us ?
We have no option but to believe That it’s either – you’re afraid of hurting your parents feelings or that some sort of lie / miscommunication or mis information has occurred.
Both options are so sad ! All we can really hope at this point is THAT YOU LISTEN to YOUR HEARTS ❤️ AND KNOW HOW IMPORTANT IT IS for you TO always BE GOOD amazing KIDS WHO LOVE WITH ALL of their HEART and soul – ALWAYS REMEMBER THE LOVE YOU HAVE KNOWN FOR ALL THESE YEARS AND BE KIND. KEEP all of the family and friends, teachers and PEOPLE YOU LOVE and care for, CLOSE TO YOUR heart AND BE STRONG.
So our hope is that with these letters, videos, photos – to you both are images of the true past and that they will stay inside you and help you through. That you will both ALWAYS remember to LISTEN WITH YOUR HEART. To have grown up with us – to have so many firsts. To learn to eat, crawl, walk, talk read and write … and somehow come to a point of NO CONTACT – and what it is our lives now ? Well that is incomprehensible to us! So we we too listen with our hearts 💕 and that is why we write- to remind you we will never be upset with you. That we loved every moment we ever had in your lives. And hope to be in your lives again soon. We would not ever miss a chance to see you at activities or at birthday celebrations. We simply love you and have no choice but to allow mom and dad to do things as they see fit. Here’s another link for you to click !
I think that I have video of all of these kind of things – and I remember having one of Elijah walking behind Guge on a tricycle when he took his first steps. 😊
Here is another happy face !
The smiles the love the memories – they all warm our hearts. We love you both so very much. We hope one day you know how much and that the two of you as well as your mom and dad are all very happy.
Love you both forever and always – this link always melts my heart…..
❤️Nana and Poppy❤️🍪