Dinner with Poppy

Tonight instead of turkey left overs Poppy took Nana to dinner ! We had a date and it was so much fun! Downtown is all lit up for the holiday !

The town is bright and people are enjoying the light show. Do you remember when we came to town to show you both all the lights ? Definitely a favorite thing to do this time of year !

We even went by Santa’s mailbox to send our wish … it’s a wish for you two to have a most Merry Christmas ? – one that is full of love and Christmas magic.

We can wish and hope that we will see you soon , and it’s no surprise that forever and always that WILL BE our wish !  More importantly our wish will be that you are ALWAYS happy, and know THAT TO US you are always super amazing for being so brave, and we think of you both with great love and wish for you continued perseverance and strength – strength like what  you’ve each had to find inside yourselves when you had leave behind almost everything you ever knew as home ….  all of  your toys and clothes, crafts that you had made, all your favorite things, all of  the people  friends and family – and the usual day to day life you’d always known.

We hope you never let the abrupt changes in your lives bring to you any trouble and that you always use the love you have felt for all these past years…. as a building block to bright tomorrow’s ! I am so glad I had sent all the boxes of school papers to mom and dad each year from school. They will make for some awesome memories as well ! We always love seeing the artwork from different school years of our kids , so maybe one day you two will enjoy the ones that we had sent before you moved.

Never forget to keep up working hard at school and enjoy all the fun things you do ! Stay sweet and be so very good for mom and dad. Never stop smiling the amazing smiles that are yours-  and be kind and sweet. Love with all your heart and don’t be afraid to love.

We love you both to the moon and back and we always will !  (Do you remember this Christmas ornament, you would pull the candy cane at the bottom and the lights flash, and it makes a pinball game sound… it was a favorite!)

We cannot imagine how excited you must be for the holiday season.   Just think – we are fast approaching the beginning of December…. it is almost Guillianna’s birthday …and just like when we sent gifts  on Elijah’s birthday we will send Guillianna hers for her birthday!

Before you know it – it will be time for Christmas magic!  Yay!   It’s sad to think  I have not spoken to you since the FaceTime call at the end of April , and at that time if you’ll remember –  I did hear you  ask if you could FaceTime Poppy, but we’re told it was  “7:30 and too late ” – but you asked for  a call the next day…. we never heard back since and that is very unusual,   but we  hope that it will work out soon and who knows  maybe in time for the holidays!     If not we will make sure to keep writing letters of love until we can connect again!    We both hope we can get to see your faces again soon and every day we will hope for the same.  Stay super sweet, keep on being great and love on mom and dad!    Good choices and good hard work with lots of laughter and fun will make the holiday season extra bright for you.

XOXOXOXOXOXO

❤️Nana and Poppy❤️?

Happy Thanksgiving ❤️

Dear Guillianna and Elijah –

Today was a day for turkey and all the fixings that go with it …( this photo is from last year at Nana’s house when you were there) the food is always something to be grateful for but we also are grateful for family. You are two very special kids who everyone is grateful for the time we were all together . We are all also grateful that you get to have a new kind of Thanksgiving with mom and dad, it will be fun making new Thanksgiving Day memories !

Aunt Allyssa and Uncle Dwan came with Elena , Gray and Cole and uncle Nick, Aunt Liz and Sebastian came too. Great Grandma Sally was able to come as well. Some other family had plans and were just as busy celebrating Turkey day . Came across some photos that popped up on this same date a few years ago ! You lost a tooth ! Look at the adorable photos !

You should have a few more days of Thanksgiving break from school so I hope you are spending it doing favorite things. I went to drop off a piece of art work the other day and saw many of your school friends. They came running to say hi and asked why you don’t visit or write back ? I explained that it’s not your fault at all that you’re so busy! All of them cannot wait til you are able to visit the Mitten again. If that happens we will certainly make sure we plan a huge gathering or do it during a week like Irish week or field day so you can visit. Who knows, right? That’s why we hope and have dreams. It’s always good to wish for and work towards dreams!

They have grown so much. There are a few who are as tall as Nana ! Crazy ! It made me wish I could hug you both please know that with all our heart and soul we love you to the moon and back, forever and always , and we are so grateful to you both for all the love and joy you bring to others every day !

XOXOXOXOXOXO

❤️Nana and Poppy❤️?

Turkey prep day ? On Thanksgiving we … are thankful !

Dear Guillianna and Elijah:

Today is likely a travel or meal prep day. Wishing you lots of happiness and fun for these next few days as the Thanksgiving holiday weekend begins. You have had so many turkey days with Nana and Poppy! For that we are so thankful ! This year may be spent with Daddy’s family which could be a super fun change for you, or maybe the two of you will help mom and dad with making some “Guguberry Pie”… or a special Pumpkin cake ! No matter what the plan is, we will be thinking of you with smile on our faces hoping you feel happiness and make some fantastic memories to add to your memory book. We have a few pics here that will bring smiles for sure !   Look how little…. Oh my goodness….

Next thing we knew …. you’re 9 and 6 years old at our house,

hard to believe Eli is now 7 and Guge is turning 10! CRAZY ! Love you both to the moon and back, forever and always , wishing you the best Thanksgiving break where ever you go, what ever you do….

XOXOXOXOXOXO

❤️Nana and Poppy❤️?

How LONG is a day? How DEEP is the ocean ? How MUCH are you loved ? WHERE does love go?

Dear Guillianna and Elijah –

How long is a minute ? 60 seconds !

How long is an hour ? 60 minutes!

How long is a day ? 24 hours !

How long is a week ? 7 days !

How long is a year ? 365 days!

Today is Poppy’s birthday and here IS A PHOTO OF A PRIOR BIRTHDAY WITH POPPY AND HIS FAVORITE WAY TO SPEND IT….

There are some things that you can measure or count …. and some that you cannot ….

How deep is the ocean ? ??????? Depends on where you measure it I suppose ! But not deeper than the love we have for both of you !

How much love does Nana and Poppy have for both of you ? Pretty sure you cannot measure that! The love we have for you cannot be measured. It cannot be explained and it is endless!

Maybe you wonder, Where does love a grandparent has for a grandchild go ?

This I know for sure …. Love for grandchildren doesn’t ever leave , it cannot and will not ever go anywhere… it’s forever !

The fact is , grandparents look at all the days of their life, all the children they raise, they think about every decision they made, with their own children, every event they did with their own children, every obstacle ever climbed with their own children…. every joy and every success! They know that the decision to have family allows for their own children to have their own families! – yes they always think of the love they have for their children and as they think – the love they have had year after year and the dreams they have had suddenly blossoms OR GROWS into a new love, the love of a grandchild!

And that love never goes away either, not when the grandchild grows up, not when the the grandchild moves away, not when the grandchild is a teen or goes to college, not when the grandchild gets married, not when grand children have children of their own . It just keeps growing ! Just like the love they have as parents but different in that the role we have as grandparents in your lives is different than the role we had as parents ! It is true – For the two of you living in the Mitten with us for so long we definitely built a very special bond, simply out of the amount of time spent and the role we had during your mom and dad’s absence. There is no question – we loved every second of our time together and are always going to treasure it.

Grandparents ( and great grandparents ) sadly cannot promise that they will live forever… but they can promise they will LOVE FOREVER – And that is the truth. We will love you forever and always, to the moon and back,

XOXOXOXOXOXO

❤️Nana and Poppy❤️?

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