Dear Guillianna and Elijah

The weekend is almost here and it should be a special one since there will be a very special birthday to celebrate!    We know how special you two make the day every day but we remember so many birthdays with you both and I am sue you will have a great weekend celebrating another one!       Surely the best present will simply be to have you all together for this special day.   I am careful to not write much detail or in anyway make angry our daughter, as I have been threatened with being taken to court.  Taken to court for writing these love letters?   I know it’s crazy to think that anyone would ever want to stop these letters and photos, take their own parents to court.  They hold so much joy and happiness yet the truth behind them seems to threaten any untruths that may have been told.    There is no negativity intended.   They are the only way two people who love you can communicate.   To send you love and ensure that you never feel abandoned by two people who have been with you since birth, who will love you forever.   To send you the knowledge that you are both forever loved, that we NEVER  ever failed to send you a Valentine, a birthday gift, that we didn’t forget the amazing memories and that we have tried our very best to please your parents and our family, to please you both and help you both through the early years of your life.    In our care you learned so much and grew so much!   You were always “IB” AMAZING, caring , kind, helpful, good to your friends and loving to your grandparents , parents family – everyone.   The most important thing is that the historical facts here in  are not threatening to the truth.

I guess… since honestly I can’t imagine,  why anyone would not want you to see your early years, your lives – your amazing memories of so many years.   The smiles the reality is all so good and healthy for you both.   Why would anyone not want you to have those memories?      It is sad if you are both being told these love letters will be harmful to your future.   The truth is you can be proud of your past.   You have so much to be happy and grateful for.   Proud to be a part of everything that ever happened in the Mitten and in our care.  To be told otherwise is beyond sad and beyond unthinkable, for it would be lies and it would harm innocent children.   The part that is most sad – is that it seems it must be kept locked away deep inside of you since your love for us would be unacceptable to people who you love and now begin a new journey with.   The hope is that this journal or catalog of memories and historical facts will be something that you may or may not want when you grow older, when your own children grow older … who knows.    And maybe they will be forgotten and unimportant to anyone .   One day you each will be free to make that choice.   If unwanted  by the two of you the stories of love are simply become letters written by us as our autobiography as your grandparents , the story of where things began.    These love letters represent opportunity, not detriment, they are healing, not hurtful, they are love and always have been.    When this site was made, as I have said before, Guillianna was but days old  All About Guillianna,   Love Letters to Mom and Dad, then Elijah was born, the domain name purchased stayed the same!   However – this is all about how the information you’re given is delivered to the two of you.      Be true to your hearts – love for mom and dad and all your family is good and positive.     We will always love you both – to the moon and back

forever and for always

XOXOXOXOXOXO

❤️Nana and Poppy❤️?

 

By Nana

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