A collection of videos …

Nana January 27, 2019 0Comments

Dear Guillianna and Elijah-

In our photos and videos we have a series of videos that were sent to your mom and dad over the years- always keeping them close to heart, sharing with them special moments every day moments birthday and holiday wishes, activities you participated in so very many memories.

The importance of keeping children close with those they love was something we took very seriously, believed in and were so dedicated to doing for so many years.  It was completely worthless to some it seems but to us, it is just another piece of this puzzle that supports the truth and dedication of parents to their child for us and show the love and dedication of two children to their parents.   You can always be proud of your time in the Mitten, the love you have in your hearts for your Nana and Poppy and all the relatives who have always loved and supported you both for all of your lives.   Our love is sent to you both,  today and always,  as you begin another new week and surely you’ll have so many things planned.

We are hoping for a perfect Sunday, special memories and while I won’t get any video or see your faces,  I bet that the best days for your parents,  are measured by the joy that your smiles bring them.    We cannot send our own daughter cards or cookies like we used to – but want you to know that this demand to “send nothing” to withhold her children from seeing their grandparents,  is a result of the written threats to file harassment charges if we do.   Not our wish,  and is not representative of what you’ve always seen, felt or known of your Nana and Poppy.  It’s always possible she has misunderstood or there are misconceptions have been made and we will hope for truth to prevail.    Never did Nana or Poppy do anything to warrant this, we did not fail to send Guillianna Valentine’s Day presents last year when she claimed we did,   We did nothing that validates being accused of any wrong doing, and there is no question, something is not making any sense.   We don’t know where it originates from, who has said what, or why this has happened, however we do know it’s the innocent children who are left to endure the outcome of this and we certainly hope you will know that with dedication, truth, and integrity you will find that mom and dad love you, Nana and Poppy love you and some day, some way,  you will take from all this that has happened,  the importance of living with integrity and commitment, family, having communication skills and the ability to believe in yourselves, and have respect for those you love while living the lives you deserve.   It’s  important that you know and feel ? percent that you were loved, you are Good wonderful kids who did not deserve this .   You were not ever sad living in the Mitten, and to let anyone encourage you to believe that you were, or tell you that your Nana and Poppy didn’t love you, that we  are bad in any way, or that your childhood was sad, or less than what any child could ever hope to have,  while mom and dad were working, is simply wrong.   We are writing today, and anytime we write, to say we know each day is a new opportunity for you to grow and experience new things.   You will change through time and become adults.    When you do, you’ll find these love letters and you will know Nana and Poppy have given you these photos and these words from our heart… for it is all we are able to do for you at this point.   To keep you from suffering the consequences thinking you’ve lost two people you loved dearly.   For you have not.  What is most disheartening is how it must be to live with the internal conflict. It is the twofold you that are the ones who have to conform and fall in line to please those you love so much and need the approval of, yet know if you miss us, say you want to talk to us, it could make your parents angry or sad- that is a travesty .     I wish deeply you could be able to love us as you always did without fear of displeasing.  I wish that your happy movements on new journeys and happy moments of your past nine  and six years could be united.     Families everywhere are so different.    Some love closeness and parents or grandparents on their life , others chose to live independent.    One day you will be able to choose what you feel most important and you will be able to make you lives based upon your own decisions.    Every single day between now and then we hope you to have peace and contentment knowing that “where ever you go, what ever you do, we going to do it together” maybe not in a physical sense but our hearts are always wishing and hoping for you to have happiness, health, and dreams that you follow!

We love you to the moon and back,

forever and for always,

XOXOXOXOXOXO

❤️Nana and Poppy❤️?

Another letter of love sent from our home to yours…

Nana January 26, 2019 0Comments

Dear Guillianna and Elijah-

Today is Saturday and we are sending happy birthday wishes because someone we love is having a birthday this weekend.

We are hopeful when you’ve found these letters that you will enjoy seeing the smiles and they will  assist you sparking good and positive memories .     I do hope you will find a way to cope with knowing how to handle the loyalty to your parents and still having love  and care for your grandparents.  It may be when you’re much older, and you may need to ask for the help of  a skilled counselor or professional who can help you not have any guilt for the good you remember.  For loving people your parents dislike-    Help you cope with possibly being torn in half and being so innocent in all that has happened.   We want for you to know that there is no way we would ever wish you unhappiness.

You will see how strong you both are, how loved you both are and you will understand  We love you both to the moon and back –

forever and for always,

XOXOXOXOXOXO

❤️Nana and Poppy❤️?

Weekend fun is coming ….

Nana January 25, 2019 0Comments

Dear Guillianna and Elijah

The weekend is almost here and it should be a special one since there will be a very special birthday to celebrate!    We know how special you two make the day every day but we remember so many birthdays with you both and I am sue you will have a great weekend celebrating another one!       Surely the best present will simply be to have you all together for this special day.   I am careful to not write much detail or in anyway make angry our daughter, as I have been threatened with being taken to court.  Taken to court for writing these love letters?   I know it’s crazy to think that anyone would ever want to stop these letters and photos, take their own parents to court.  They hold so much joy and happiness yet the truth behind them seems to threaten any untruths that may have been told.    There is no negativity intended.   They are the only way two people who love you can communicate.   To send you love and ensure that you never feel abandoned by two people who have been with you since birth, who will love you forever.   To send you the knowledge that you are both forever loved, that we NEVER  ever failed to send you a Valentine, a birthday gift, that we didn’t forget the amazing memories and that we have tried our very best to please your parents and our family, to please you both and help you both through the early years of your life.    In our care you learned so much and grew so much!   You were always “IB” AMAZING, caring , kind, helpful, good to your friends and loving to your grandparents , parents family – everyone.   The most important thing is that the historical facts here in  are not threatening to the truth.

I guess… since honestly I can’t imagine,  why anyone would not want you to see your early years, your lives – your amazing memories of so many years.   The smiles the reality is all so good and healthy for you both.   Why would anyone not want you to have those memories?      It is sad if you are both being told these love letters will be harmful to your future.   The truth is you can be proud of your past.   You have so much to be happy and grateful for.   Proud to be a part of everything that ever happened in the Mitten and in our care.  To be told otherwise is beyond sad and beyond unthinkable, for it would be lies and it would harm innocent children.   The part that is most sad – is that it seems it must be kept locked away deep inside of you since your love for us would be unacceptable to people who you love and now begin a new journey with.   The hope is that this journal or catalog of memories and historical facts will be something that you may or may not want when you grow older, when your own children grow older … who knows.    And maybe they will be forgotten and unimportant to anyone .   One day you each will be free to make that choice.   If unwanted  by the two of you the stories of love are simply become letters written by us as our autobiography as your grandparents , the story of where things began.    These love letters represent opportunity, not detriment, they are healing, not hurtful, they are love and always have been.    When this site was made, as I have said before, Guillianna was but days old  All About Guillianna,   Love Letters to Mom and Dad, then Elijah was born, the domain name purchased stayed the same!   However – this is all about how the information you’re given is delivered to the two of you.      Be true to your hearts – love for mom and dad and all your family is good and positive.     We will always love you both – to the moon and back

forever and for always

XOXOXOXOXOXO

❤️Nana and Poppy❤️?

Thursday in The Mitten

Nana January 24, 2019 0Comments

Dear Guillianna and Elijah-

be strong in all you do, know you are loved by so many in all you do, think of happiness and the love that has always been yours in all that you do and take the love and pass it along.

Make the dreams in your hearts become reality and know we will always love you both – day in and day out.  The value the honor we taught you to have for the work of your parents , the pride, we always have had in being of service- and the smiles it brought to you as you learned these lessons !

Always know – we love you both to the moon and back, forever and for always,

XOXOXOXOXOXO

❤️Nana and Poppy❤️?